If you think about friends and friendship you soon start to see that even the most vile obnoxious people have friends, they just choose like minded people like nazis having nazi friends,chavs having chavvy friends, racists having racist friends and left wing extremists having left wing extremist friends. All that it takes is not being shy. Its pretty much the same for relationships. Ugly, stupid, ignorant? They all get someone.
The point is that you might have a great personality and morals but your shyness stops you getting friends or a partner so you then think everyone hates you for being a bad person. BOLLOCKS! The biggest c**ts in the world have c**ty friends as they are just not shy. The only thing stopping you getting like minded friends is therefore your shyness and your personality may still be wonderful.(or not). This is why extreme shyness is not a minor problem. Its stops the best of people from succeeding or even living normal lives while the people you know are no better than you or even total scum are on facebook with their oh so happy normal lives.