https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
I don’t know if they are all the same or especially accurate as there are not that many questions. I have done it before but am sure I came up a something else last time. Perhaps I have now progressed onto the next stage of madness!
Your personality type is:
Mediator
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Mediator personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, Mediators have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the Mediator personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.
Shy? What me! That’s the problem,we are just 4% of the population yet I need to find like minded people to connect.
Left unchecked, Mediators may start to lose touch, withdrawing into “hermit mode”.
Ah thats more like me!
Take Things Personally – Mediators often take challenges and criticisms personally, rather than as inspiration to reassess their positions. Difficult to Get to Know – Mediators are private, reserved and self-conscious. This makes them notoriously difficult to really get to know.
And this!
Mediators dream of the perfect relationship, forming an image of this pedestalled ideal that is their soul mate, playing and replaying scenarios in their heads of how things will be. This is a role that no person can hope to fill, and people with the Mediator personality type need to recognise that nobody’s perfect, and that relationships don’t just magically fall into place – they take compromise, understanding and effort.
And not being mentally insane of course. I have always looked for Steph from neighbours but I would still have to have talked to her first so it would have gone wrong when she realised I was a mentally insane loner. There should be a personality test for that too. I’ll look.
Yet Mediators can be easily tripped up in areas where idealism and altruism are more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, making friends, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder or planning for the future, Mediators need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skill.
Conscious effort? Sounds like exposure therapy or doing the hard work required! Some aspects are true but its a bit like astrology where many things can apply to anyone. Severe anxiety and depression simply blow all normality into oblivion.